1. Magnify the good qualities of your spouse.
2. Make the irrevocable decision to never again be critical or condemn your mate.
3. Never compare your mate negatively with anybody.
4. Never fail to compare positively saying your mate is better or more beautiful than somebody.
5. Celebrate his/her success lavishly; never see any success as little.
6. Never blame him or her for his failure.
7. Handle mistakes and errors in such a way it will diminish the spirit of your spouse.
8. Study him or her know the area of weaknesses and that of strength.
9. Never fail to recognize talents, abilities and accomplishment.
10. Any good habit you see in your children say that they pick it from him or her.
11. Communicate your respect and honour for the work he or she does.
12. Tell your children “Daddy (Mummy) is a wonderful man (woman)”
13. Remember his/her birthday and celebrate it lavishly.
14. Let your mate always feel like somebody special.
15. Wives-say it and show it that your husband is a real man, hardworking, wise and focused.
16. Seek his opinion, value his judgement, and avoid arguing with him.
17. Willingly follow his instruction with joy.
18. Husbands-never admire any other lady when your wife is there.
19. Praise the beauty and dressing of your wife always.
20. Always make her to feel younger, never call her old woman.
21. Say it publicly and privately how precious she is to you.
22. Be playful with each other.
23. Smile to his/her jokes.
24. Be very happy to welcome him/her back home.
25. Be polite to each other, be courteous.
26. Treat each other as a VIP; never down grade; never embarrass.
27. Say positive things always.
